GROUPIE LUV!

You have admired a Music Artist or Ball Player from afar... You keep up with their latest actions, and you respect his/her talents. You feel some kind of affection towards this person all though you have never met them face to face. The thought of them makes you smile, and feel all giddy inside when you see them come across your TV screen... These feelings are similar to Love, but how can you be in Love with someone who doesn’t even know you exist?? Could this be the beginning of a ... Groupie Luv! 

In reality there is nothing wrong with having admiration for someone. It’s easy to look up to a public figure and feel some sort of attraction to them.

It could be because of their talents and gifts or because of the way they claim power and attention. After all who wants someone who is just sitting around not making moves? The people that are the most appealing often times are the ones who are action takers, and leaders. You look up to them because they have stepped up to the plate, and done things that other people have only dreamed to do. So why wouldn’t you feel some kind of attraction for them? 

The Term Groupie is defined as---- "An ardent fan of a celebrity, someone who follows a group/artist around on tours. An admirer of a celebrity who attends as many of his or her public appearances as possible." 

So how does this admiration turn into a Sexual Attraction? You start off as a fan “A devotee or enthusiast", and then the next thing you know you are being referred to as a Groupie which is a "Fan" to the tenth power. The feelings you develop go from being basic to sexual, and you start fantasizing about this unknown person in a romantic sense. 

Whenever you see them in an interview, or video you start to imagine how it would be to have them in your life for real, and you become intrigued to know about all the moves they make. Some people may say these feelings are crazy, and down right obsessive, but are they really? What’s wrong with wanting to know about someone you’re attracted to? I feel your admiration only becomes dangerous when you take an aggressive action toward your crush, and you do and say things that are out of your character in order to gain their affection or temporary love. 

Having a "Groupie Luv" is perfectly safe in my opinion as long as you do not put yourself in harms way or degrade yourself or your body in order to get a temporary fix. Contrary to popular belief, I don’t believe all groupie luv involves an exchange of sexual favors. I feel you can look up to someone, follow their progress, be attracted to them and go on to build a platonic relationship with them. After all aren’t Entertainers and Athletes normal people too? They Love, Cry, and get their Hearts Broken just like everyone else. 

So why do you have to be called names just because you admire someone, or because you fantasize about a person in a sexual way. Isn’t this a normal feeling? Why wouldn’t you have sexual thoughts for someone you find attractive? Whether they are in the lime light or not! There are all types of Luvs, and I personally feel that nothing is wrong with "Groupie Luv" as long as that love doesn’t turn into a Dangerous Fatal Attraction. No matter what kind of situation you’re in, you have to keep your safety, and self respect as your first priority. 

If you’re of age, and you can wake up in the morning and be proud of what you did the night before then who’s to judge? You have to be happy and fulfilled with yourself, and be able to live with your actions, and choices in life. I feel "Love" is a beautiful thing, but you need to always have love and respect for yourself before you can have Love for anyone else. Keep in mind that Artist and Athletes again are just people. They are not Gods or Untouchable Creatures. 

I feel it’s important to understand that most people who are currently in the lime light once had a “Groupie Luv” too! They have looked up to artist/entertainers on TV, and have been attracted to them, followed their progress, and had sexual thoughts about them. It’s completely normal, and innocent in nature to have a “Groupie Luv”, at least until you take aggressive action, and then it becomes something more. 

~Be Safe & Much Luv~ XoXo

WHAT IS SEXY TO YOU?

I went to the movies today to go see "For Colored Girls" which I might add is a very good movie.  My baby Omari Hardwick was looking extra sexy. I'm gonna have to ignore the part about him being a .... well I don't wanna ruin the movie! (side eye) LOL So anyway as I walking through the theater on the way to my seat I noticed several guys staring at me.  

Now, there's nothing wrong with guys looking at a female right? Well the problem was that most of these guys were on a date.  I looked around at the females in the theater, and I noticed that most of them were dressed down in outfits that in my opinion should only be worn around the house not on a date! I meanwhile had on my suede knee high boots, jeans, a black knitted shirt, with my hair, and nails done. In other words I was dressed to go out.

I never have understood how some females just let themselves go when they get a man.  Keeping yourself up both physically and emotionally is important in any relationship.  Now I know that men will always look, but they should never be lusting for another female when they are around you. Glancing is to be expected, but he shouldn't be fantasizing about another female, and wishing that he was with her instead of you.  Men are physical creatures and appearance is very important to them.  Just like we as females need affection, men need to feel appreciated too.  I personally feel its disrespectful for any female to go out on a date with her man, and not look her best.

All Im saying it to ask your man what is sexy to him.  Find out what turns him on, and make a point to switch things up every once in a while.  Smelling good is just as important as looking good! Some sweet smelling perfume is just as necessary as some heels, and a sexy dress.  I understand that sometimes you dont want to dress up, but its important to keep your man excited, and interested.  I dont expect every female to look extra sexy 24/7 but when you go out with your man you should make him happy to have you on his arm, and in return he should do the same for you.

Keep the relationship HOT in and out of the bedroom! Role Play, Weekend trips alone without the kids, and unexpected love notes to say you care are all important elements to keeping a relationship strong. 

How important is the one you love? What is Sexy to You?

XOXO MizzBlaze

MY BOOBIES POPPED OUT!

I just finished my first photo shoot in years, and I wanted to share my experience with everyone. As I was filming the video however my top button popped open, and my viewers got to see a little bit more than they expected! LOL

HAPPY BIRTHDAY NELLY!

Today November 2nd is Nelly's Birthday, and I wanted to do a special video in his honor. I think Nelly is oh so fine! He has such a seductive style, from his full lips to his sexy swagger on down to his awesome biceps. He is definitely a man that commands attention. The great thing about Nelly is he's not only handsome but intelligent as well. Nelly is a very ambitious, and goal oriented individual with numerous accomplishments under his belt. Cornell Haynes Jr., has sold over 50 million records, and he continues to strive for great things. He is an actor, athlete, a business entrepreneur, and so much more. Nelly’s Apple Bottoms line has become a huge success, and his other clothing line called Vokál has also done tremendous sells as well.

Nelly recently released his 5th album on September 16th entitled Brass knuckles, and I must say Im loving the new CD. My favorite songs on the album are, "Body On Me" (featuring Ashanti & Akon) and "Long Night" (featuring Usher). There is so much more I could say about Nelly, but I just wanted to highlight some of the main things that stood out to me. I love to see black men grow and become successful. Happy Birthday Nelly! I wish you all the best! Keep doing your thing, and continue to make those haters HATE! LOL Since I'm not there to celebrate your birthday, I made you a special gift from the heart. I hope you like it!

With All My Love,
XoXo
MizzHotBlaze

WHAT HAPPENED TO GLENN LEWIS? (EXCLUSIVE!)

What ever happened to the unbelievably sexy Glenn Lewis?

Last night I was online in a chat room and someone mentioned my favorite song by India Arie called, "Ready for Love." I'm a very romantic person and that song really touches my soul. I decided to look the video up on you tube, and while watching India Arie sing her heart out I caught a glimpse of a familiar face. It was the infamous Glenn Lewis. He was sitting at a table in the background looking like a sexy piece of chocolate cake, and I started having all types of fantasies that I can’t mention on this post! LOL I swear I'm gonna make it my mission to bring Glenn Lewis back on the music scene. Since the release of his first single "The Thing to Do" in 1998, Glenn Lewis has been serenading us with his sweet voice, and I’m not ready to give up on him just yet. His unique sound is magnificent, and it should be floating on the airways.

Glenn's exotic features come from his Island heritage. His mother is from Trinidad, and his father is from Jamaica. Yes, we Trini’s are beautiful creatures! LOL

I started researching some information today, and I noticed several postings back in April 2008 stating that Glenn Lewis was back with a new song called, "Stay with Me" produced by Terry Hunter. Why hasn’t this song been on the radio? Well I tell you one thing it will be on my upcoming radio show this Sunday October 12th! The track is very different from his previous works, but I still love it! If anyone knows Glenn Please let him know I will stay with him indefinitely! I love you Glenn! Please don’t leave us hanging much longer.

FYI: The word is Mr. Lewis now resides somewhere in Philadelphia, PA. Glenn I’m coming to Philly this weekend and I’m looking for you!!! LMAO


Family Tree feat. Glenn Lewis - Kardinal Offishall

Exclusive Update! Good thing I waited an extra day to release this blog because I found yet another song by Glenn Lewis coming out this year. There is a Canadian rapper by the name of Kardinal Offishall, and he has a track on his new CD called "Family Tree (Still Eyerize)." This track is definitely HOT, and Glenn's soulful voice seals the deal. The CD entitled, "Not 4 Sale" was released in September 2008 under Konvict Muzik. This is Kardinal's fourth album.

KEEP IT COMING GLENN!!!! XOXO MayaAnd This is Why I'm HOT!!!

KELLY ROWLAND'S FAB NEW LOOK!

I caught a glimpse of these pictures recently of Kelly Rowland in Milan during Fashion Week 2008. I must say I immediately got a smile on my face when I saw how beautiful Kelly looked, and I had to do a blog about this. Kelly has gone from looking like a young girl to a DIVA! She looks flawless in these pictures, and I am so proud of her. I pray one day soon I can make a come up like this, because I know my look needs some serious improvement! LOL

Lets take a step back shall we? Remember This.........


I personally never liked Kelly in red hair. I don’t think it complemented her at all. I could tell she was attractive, but she never looked sexy to me. I can understand why she wanted to stand out from the other group members in Destiny's Child, especially when Beyonce took all the attention.

This picture above is just plain old scary! The hat, the makeup, and the complete wardrobe scream out HELP ME! I need a professional stylist! LOL When I came across this picture I started busting out laughing. I know everyone has one of these HOT Mess moments floating in their photo album at home, but just imagine if that picture was circling around online for thousands of people to see! LOL I swear if I was a celebrity I would wear shades everyday all day. No photographer would catch me looking like this! LMAO

Now this picture here is cute, but you can tell she's still coming into her own. I love the background and the lil dog sitting on her back is so precious. I still don’t like the red hair though. The jagged hair cut just isn’t working for me.


In this picture I’m not quite sure what’s going on, but I think Kelly is attempting to look sexy! LOL (That was so wrong of me I know. he he) Seriously though, again the makeup and the red hair is throwing everything off. This whole look just doesn’t say sex appeal, and the shoes......Who dressed her for this shoot anyway? LOL

Now we go back to the present! Let’s look at Kelly's phenomenal transformation.

It's Official! Kelly is all grown up, and she is a force to be reckoned with. She looks like a beautiful sophisticated woman who is ready to take on big things. You Go Girl!

Kelly is pictured here with designer Roberto Cavalli. Her skin is glowing and she even got some cleavage action happening! LOL Now this picture has Sex Appeal written all over it!


Here is Kelly on stage performing. Look at that Diva Stance. She is working it! Check out the make up here its perfect, and I love her jewelry accessories. The pieces add just the right amount of flavor to her outfit. Kelly is looking good!

ASHANTI & NELLY (MY FAVORITE COUPLE)

There are several couples I would like to acknowledge, because their relationship makes me smile every time I see them together. Love is so precious and beautiful, and I just wanted to take the time to show off some pictures that motivate me to continue my search for true love..........


The First Couple on my list are Nelly & Ashanti. I think they are so cute together. Even though I honestly want Nelly all to myself LOL I can’t deny the bond that these two share together. It seems they have both a friendship, and a close intimate relationship as well. Whenever I see Nelly and Ashanti together they always look so happy! What a wonderful feeling to be in love, and to have a special connection with the one you cherish most! Absolutely FABULOUS!


Picture taken from People.com- In this photo the adorable couple is enjoying a romantic vacation on the Caribbean island of Anguilla. Can you imagine having photographers following you around everywhere you go? Of course I love looking at the pictures, LOL but I also feel everyone, celebrity or not have the right to some kind of privacy.

I think this photo is sooo cute! My only question is...What the heck are they eating? It appears to be some kind of Asian food. LOL Ashanti added in an interview with People Magazine: "Me and Nelly, we're good friends. We kick it - hang out a lot. The industry is very hard, so it's good to have fun and lighten it up." June 2008
Look at the way Nelly is looking down at Ashanti’s dress.
He’s thinking, "Daaamn Mommy! You’re looking sexy tonight! I can’t wait to go home and tear that up!" (If you look closely, you can see a bulge in Nelly's pants! LOL)

Check out Nelly's grin in this picture. He looks so proud! "Oh Yeah. That’s all mine right there!" hehe. Look at the way he’s reaching out his hand to assist his Queen. How can you not love these two! (Nelly & Ashanti pose in the press room at the 2008 BET Awards held at the Shrine Auditorium on June 24, 2008 in Los Angeles, California.)

This beautiful picture was taken on February 2008 during Clive Davis's Pre Grammy Party at the Beverly Hilton Hotel in Los Angeles; CA. How is it that Nelly and Ashanti always look flawless? I know no one is perfect, but when they are together they give off this aura of sophistication and class. They’re always dressed in the most up to date fashion, and I honestly don’t think it’s just because they have money. This couple has good taste as well, and they know how to throw things together. Yes celebrities do have professional designers that dress them, but Nelly and Ashanti seem to have a unique look that is all their own. Don’t Hate!


Maybe I need to get a life, but I’m sorry I just love these two together! Don’t you just feel the all the love in the room right now??
Nelly-"Come Here Babe! Let me give you a big Kiss! MUUUAWWW!!!!"
Ashanti- "Hehe Nelly you’re so crazy!"
I’m over here dying laughing, but seriously I bet that’s how it goes! LOL

WISHING YOU TWO THE BEST! XOXO MizzBlaze