GROUPIE LUV!

You have admired a Music Artist or Ball Player from afar... You keep up with their latest actions, and you respect his/her talents. You feel some kind of affection towards this person all though you have never met them face to face. The thought of them makes you smile, and feel all giddy inside when you see them come across your TV screen... These feelings are similar to Love, but how can you be in Love with someone who doesn’t even know you exist?? Could this be the beginning of a ... Groupie Luv!

In reality there is nothing wrong with having admiration for someone. It’s easy to look up to a public figure and feel some sort of attraction to them. Whether it’s because of their talents and gifts or because of the way they claim power and attention. After all who wants someone who is just sitting around not making moves? The people that are the most appealing often times are the ones who are action takers, and leaders. You look up to them because they have stepped up to the plate, and done things that other people have only dreamed to do. So why wouldn’t you feel some kind of attraction for them?

The Term Groupie is defined as---- "An ardent fan of a celebrity, someone who follows a group/artist around on tours. An admirer of a celebrity who attends as many of his or her public appearances as possible."

So how does this admiration turn into a Sexual Attraction? You start off as a fan “A devotee or enthusiast", and then the next thing you know you are being referred to as a Groupie which is a "Fan" to the tenth power. The feelings you develop go from being basic to sexual, and you start fantasizing about this unknown person in a romantic sense. Whenever you see them in an interview, or video you start to imagine how it would be to have them in your life for real, and you become intrigued to know about all the moves they make. Some people may say these feelings are crazy, and down right obsessive, but are they really? What’s wrong with wanting to know about someone you’re attracted to? I feel your admiration only becomes dangerous when you take an aggressive action toward your crush, and you do and say things that are out of your character in order to gain their affection or temporary love.

Having a "Groupie Luv" is perfectly safe in my opinion as long as you do not put yourself in harms way or degrade yourself or your body in order to get a temporary fix. Contrary to popular belief, I don’t believe all groupie luv involves an exchange of sexual favors. I feel you can look up to someone, follow their progress, be attracted to them and go on to build a plutonic relationship with them. After all aren’t Entertainers and Athletes normal people too? They Love, Cry, and get their Hearts Broken just like everyone else. So why do you have to be called names just because you admire someone, or because you fantasize about a person in a sexual way. Isn’t this a normal feeling? Why wouldn’t you have sexual thoughts for someone you find attractive? Whether they are in the lime light or not!

There are all types of Luvs, and I personally feel that nothing is wrong with "Groupie Luv" as long as that love doesn’t turn into a Dangerous Fatal Attraction. No matter what kind of situation you’re in, you have to keep your safety, and self respect as your first priority. If you’re of age, and you can wake up in the morning and be proud of what you did the night before then who’s to judge? You have to be happy and fulfilled with yourself, and be able to live with your actions, and choices in life. I feel "Love" is a beautiful thing, but you need to always have love and respect for yourself before you can have Love for anyone else. Keep in mind that Artist and Athletes again are just people. They are not Gods or Untouchable Creatures. 

I feel it’s important to understand that most people who are currently in the lime light once had a “Groupie Luv” too! They have looked up to artist/entertainers on TV, and have been attracted to them, followed their progress, and had sexual thoughts about them. It’s completely normal, and innocent in nature to have a “Groupie Luv”, at least until you take aggressive action, and then it becomes something more.

~Be Safe & Much Luv~

XoXo

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THE FEMALES TEN COMMANDMENTS

Many people ask me why I'm single, and honestly there is no simple answer. I have given so many guys chances recently, and in the end it was a big FAIL! I'm not trying to say all the guys I ever dated were bad, I'm speaking on the last couple of years. I did have several Good Men in my life, and when I had them it was me who messed up. I was not mature enough to handle a serious relationship back then, and I think a part of me was afraid that the relationship was too good to be true, so I purposely sabotaged it.  

Now that I have matured and I'm ready to be open, and take a chance at Love it seems all I meet are lazy guys who want Sex with no commitment or Sex without putting in any work at all. No courtship, no dinners, no being there when your car breaks down, just Sex and then they go about their business. Maybe I'm not getting out enough or maybe I need to travel more because lately I've been working a lot and I haven't had the chance to move around, but Damn it seems the older I get the worse my selection of "Men" become.

I know I am partially to blame because I have not always laid down "The Rules" AKA said exactly what I expected or what I wanted. I just hung out with them, and did the whole independent woman routine. My mom raised me to never depend on a man so I rarely asked for help. A part of me thought it would make me look weak. But now that I have a house, and bigger responsibilities I realize that when you have a man in your life he should be there to make your life easier not harder. 

He should alleviate some of your stress, and in turn you should be there to support him as well. I never expected much so I never got much. So because of that I was wrong, but now that I have grown I understand that as a woman you must not give in to your feelings of loneliness, and sexual urges before you know that the person that your dealing with is truly in your best interest. In other words they care about your well being, and want to give not just take, they care about your happiness, and your safety. Someone who will go out of their way to let you know that you are not alone in this world, and that they have your back.

Too many woman allow a man to get something for nothing. They cook and clean for them, open their legs for them, give their love, and affection away for what? for sexual gratification?  For someone to warm your bed at night? If that's all you need ladies get a Heated Blanket and a Vibrator! I have been guilty of these things in the past, and on a Serious Note just 5 months ago I gave my all to someone who did not deserve or appreciate my time or affection but it STOPS NOW! 

No matter how bad it gets I need to understand that my Priorities comes first over my Loneliness, and need for affection. I'm a woman not a girl anymore, and its well over due that I Say What I want from a man in a realistic context and not allow the Bullshit to continue. A guy needs to put in work to be with me, but I'm also willing to put in the same amount of work in return.  Ive never had a problem giving my all and making sure that the person I'm with is happy. My only problem was in the midst of giving him my all I forgot about what HE should be giving to ME!



This is my Theme song for 2011! Ladies please pay attention to the lyrics below!

 LIL MO & LIL KIM "TEN COMMANDMENTS"

Ladies, I wrote me a manual
How to keep your man
These rules you must follow
My 10 commandments
(Oo, oo, oo)

Let me break it down for you
Rule number 1
Never give him some on the first night
Rule number 2
Never bring your man around your crew

Rule number 3
Never call him first let him call you
Rule number 4
Never let him know your every move

Rule number 5
Never tell him about your past
How many other lovers you've had?
How many other lovers went bad?
Make no exceptions
If you want it to last

Girl, you got to understand him
If you want to keep your man whipped
Follow my 10 commandments
And he'll keep coming back for more
And more and more

Rule number 6
Never mix business with pleasure
Rule number 7
Never move in unless he tell ya

Rule number 8
Never tell your friends about your bedroom
Rule number 9
Never let them know his shoe size

Rule number 10
Should have been rule number 1
'Cos If you give in on the first night
Make sure you ride that thing

Scream his name
And he'll be yours for life
'Cos you know your excited
('Cos you know your excited)

And you just can't fight it
And you wanna tell all your friends
But you've got to make sure loves intact
Because you want him to keep coming back

Girl, you got to understand him
If you want to keep your man whipped
Follow my 10 commandments
And he'll keep coming back for more
And more and more

Girl, you got to understand him
If you want to keep your man whipped
Follow my 10 commandments
And he'll keep coming back for more
And more and more

There's never no such thing as giving him to much
'Cos if you want to wed with your man
You can never give enough
'Cos you get excited

And wanna tell everybody
But you've got to make sure
Loves intact
Then it will help you bring him back

I've been in this thing for years
It made me an animal
Me and my girl
Mo wrote you'll a manual

Step by step booklet for you to keep
Your man in his place
And out the next girls' face
Rule number 1

Never give a dude money
Girl, don't be a dummy
Let the homie, stay bummy
'Cos once he start, he won't stop, that's it

And all he gonna do is spend it on the next chic
Rule number 2
Before you give him some
It's your way

Shoppin', a new car
That's what I call foreplay
Now don't get me wrong
Respect your man

But if dude gets out of line
Then check your man
Rule number 3
Should have been rule number 1

Never go down
Till he licks you round
Your neck, your back, your pus** and a** crack
Rule number 4, 5 and 6

Very important lessons
Keep your man guessing
Never let him see you stressing
And if you love heres 7, 8, 9 and 10

Never ever, ever mess with his friend
See if you follow these
You'll have mad bred
To breaka house on the beach

And mad trips to jacob
He'll be home at night cooking you a steaka
And he'll keep coming back for more
On the wake up

Girl, you got to understand him
If you want to keep your man whipped
Follow my 10 commandments
And he'll keep coming back for more
And more and more

Girl, you got to understand him
If you want to keep your man whipped
Follow my 10 commandments
And he'll keep coming back for more
And more and more

Understand
If you want to keep your man
And you want to hold on to him
Keep your man whipped

Follow my 10 commandments
Ha, you got it
Ha, keep coming back for more
Understand

Keep your man
My command
More and more and more
More and more and more

MUCH LUV XOXO @{~~~~~~

RELIGION & THE ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY.

There was a discussion in the chat room the other night about music and how it affects our mental thoughts. I personally agree that music does have an impact on the way we live our life, but I also feel that movies do as well. I think the entertainment industry in a whole can have an impact on people in a negative and positive way. There is rap music that can uplift your spirit, and in turn there is also rap music out there that can make you want to go shoot somebody in the face! It all depends on what or who you choose to listen to. In the end we all make our own personnel choices, and what you listen to or watch is just a seed that is implanted in our head. You don’t have to follow what you see or hear, but I agree it can have some influence on you none the less. That’s why it’s important to filter out what you bring into your life.

There have been times when I listened to sexual music and it made me want to go out and have sex, but I chose not to. Just because I listen to a sexual song that doesn’t mean I’m going to be forced to sleep with someone. I still made the choice to be true to myself. Since I’m more of a visual person however, movies stick in my mind more than music does. For me it’s the visual and the verbal that really gets to my psyche, but even still just because I watch something that doesn’t mean I’m going to follow through with the actions I see.


I choose not to listen to music that is highly negative, and or violent because I don’t want to have negative energy around me or in my thoughts. Everyone has a choice, and it’s not my place to say what is right or what is wrong for any individual person. All I can do is change myself, and make sure I watch and listen to things that will impact my life in a positive way. Sometimes I am guilty of watching violent movies, but I also watch spiritual and positive movies as well, so for me it evens out. There are numerous artists that express their religious beliefs, and they say that they are deeply in touch with god. I know I pray regularly, and for me it’s important to have God in my life, and in my spirit.

Here’s the question...Can you make and or listen to sexual or violent songs/movies, and then turn around and say your a Christian or a Spiritual person? Why or Why not.

P DIDDY CHILD SUPPORT DRAMA

New update in the Diddy Chronicles! It seems that Puffy aka Fudge Packer has to come out of pocket once again. Word is his new baby’s mom Sarah dun hit the Jack Pot and she’s about to get PAID like Dewayne Wade!!!! LOL I honestly don’t think this is fair. Why do I have to get up and go to work everyday while this trick gets to chill at home and sip Mocha Chino’s!!!! I mean Puffy isn’t even straight! What gives! "Have a baby by me baby be a millionaire, Ill write a check for the baby who the hell cares!" 50 Cent HAHHA So typical!

Check out MediaTakeOuts Post Below:

CHA-CHING!!! DIDDY'S SECRET BABY MOTHER RECEIVES SETTLEMENT .... GETS $25,000 A MONTH!!!

December 09, 2008. The Diddy secret baby's momma drama is officially put to rest. MediaTakeOut.com just learned that on November 11th, Diddy and Sarah entered into a final child support agreement.

And while the exact details of the agreement are TOP SECRET - a MediaTakeOut.com snitch tells us that Diddy has agreed to pay $25,000 per month for his daughter Chance. He also set up a multi-million dollar trust fund for the little girl.

The downside for Sarah - Diddy has an airtight confidentiality agreement. So don't expect any interviews or tell all's from her anytime soon.
----------------------------------------------------------------------------- DANG!!! With all this recession going on - it seems like being Diddy's jump off is the most stable gig in the country...

BOW WOW SAYS IM NOT SUPERHEADS BABY DADDY!

So it seems there has been a buzz lately regarding Karrine Steffans's pregnancy. Everyone is wondering "Who's The Baby’s Daddy!!!" Honestly it could be practically anyone! LOL For some reason however, rapper/actor "Bow wow" has been the main focus point around this dramatic fiasco! Lucky him right? Well anyway Bow wow has released a statement via Mix Tape regarding his affiliation with Karrine, and the rumors surrounding him fathering her child check it out.


"On My Momma" - by Bow Wow

I hear these rumors about Superhead
Boy y'all funny,
I wrapped it up like a Christmas gift
I ain't no dummy--Bow Wow Mix Tape 2008

HAPPY BIRTHDAY NELLY!

Today November 2nd is Nelly's Birthday, and I wanted to do a special video in his honor. I think Nelly is oh so fine! He has such a seductive style, from his full lips to his sexy swagger on down to his awesome biceps. He is definitely a man that commands attention. The great thing about Nelly is he's not only handsome but intelligent as well. Nelly is a very ambitious, and goal oriented individual with numerous accomplishments under his belt. Cornell Haynes Jr., has sold over 50 million records, and he continues to strive for great things. He is an actor, athlete, a business entrepreneur, and so much more. Nelly’s Apple Bottoms line has become a huge success, and his other clothing line called Vokál has also done tremendous sells as well.

Nelly recently released his 5th album on September 16th entitled Brass knuckles, and I must say Im loving the new CD. My favorite songs on the album are, "Body On Me" (featuring Ashanti & Akon) and "Long Night" (featuring Usher). There is so much more I could say about Nelly, but I just wanted to highlight some of the main things that stood out to me. I love to see black men grow and become successful. Happy Birthday Nelly! I wish you all the best! Keep doing your thing, and continue to make those haters HATE! LOL Since I'm not there to celebrate your birthday, I made you a special gift from the heart. I hope you like it!

With All My Love,
XoXo
MizzHotBlaze

WE LOOSE RADIO SHOW! (EXCLUSIVE!)

This past week I had the pleasure of Co-hosting the premier of a very special show called, “We Loose Radio,” on September 30th 2008. I was on the air broadcasting Entertainment News, and giving my various opinions about the music industry. I want to thank Skip for valuing my insight, and inviting me to join him on his show.

We Loose Radio is a weekly broadcast that airs every Tuesday @ 11PM EST out of Miami, FL. The focus of the show is to showcase new Rap/Hip Hop artist that are looking for exposure. The show also has entertainment news with yours truly, sports updates, and various special appearances by artist in the music industry.




This week I got a chance to go deep into the motivation behind WeLooseRadio, and this is what I discovered...

Skip can you tell me more about your Radio show, who is your targeted audience? I consider my show to be a true Indie and unsigned showcase. I also have a little entertainment, comedy, current event discussions, and commentary. I'd like my audience to be anyone who enjoys good music. I take pride in playing songs that aren’t on the radio, which people may have never heard of, or from artists that no one knows about.

How did you come up with the name "We Loose Radio?"
Well the name of our music label is WELOOSE (All caps, One word) Music, so it just fit that our radio station would be called WELOOSE radio. WELOOSE, comes from 2 parts WE meaning "family" and LOOSE meaning "we out here."

What are your long term plans for the show?
I plan to do the show as long as those indie and unsigned artists continue to supply me with good music to spin. I hope that in the future I can get some good high profile interviews, and maybe develop a large enough fan base to have my show sponsored and promoted on a national level. What I would really love is to take the show from web radio to TV.

What inspired you to start a Radio Show?
Well I’ve always been trying to find another medium to expose my own music as well as Indie and unsigned artists. I believe in the pay it forward concept. So I started with an online magazine that was short lived, but was still very successful as far as fan base and exposure. When I heard about the web radio format, I thought it would be fun.

Where are you originally from?
I was born on an Army base in Ft Campbell, KY. I then moved to Germany, which is where my mother is from, and when we relocated back to the US I lived in KY, TN, KS, and finally after much traveling we ended up in Miami, FL where my dad is originally from.

Do you have any further information you would like to include about yourself or the show?
The show is every Tuesday at 11pm EST, we try to feature and interview at least 2 or 3 artists each month. Id really like to have some label execs or those out there with indie labels to take a listen to some of the talent I'm floating their way. You can send all music submissions to my address on my music page. I also have my own music on there as well. www.myspace.com/skiphop305


Email Submissions To
weloose@gmail.com
Radio Show (Listner Dial in number is (347) 996-5361.)
www.blogtalkradio.com/WELOOSERADIO

LIL WAYNE HAS A BLOG?

Ok, I'm deeply confused. Lil Wayne is now "writing" a blog for ESPN Sports? I thought Lil Wayne said he doesn’t read, and he doesn’t write music. I basically thought from his interviews with XXL that anything relating to literature or writing in general was out of the question for him. If you don’t like to read why would you start writing a blog? Maybe it’s just me, but I think Lil Wayne’s actions contradict his words. I know by now I shouldn’t be surprised by anything Weezy says or does, because half the time he’s sipping on that Sizzurp! LOL but I just had to say something about this because I felt disturbed! I invite you to check out the link below to LIL Wayne’s Blog for ESPN. I read the article for about two minutes and I got an overwhelming headache!

Every other sentence seemed to be jumbled together. It was as if I could hear Weezy slurring his words in every paragraph! LOL Well it’s clear that Wayne is getting plenty of press coverage for this new venture, and despite my personnel opinion I’m sure many of Lil Wayne's fans are backing him on this blog. I honestly enjoy Weezy’s music, however I don’t know if I want to read anymore of his blogs. I don’t find them as entertaining as his song lyrics. I think Wayne should have broadcasted his blogs for ESPN via video such as You Tube or another visual media instead. That is something I would have been interested in. Leave the writing alone especially since you don’t like to read. LOL Performing is what you do best, so why not be more visual with your words?

Seriously, if I tried to get up on stage to RAP I would sound like a fool! That’s why I stick to writing, and FYI I love to read. LOL I feel reading helps you to speak more fluently. Well that again is just my opinion. Honestly I just want to say Wayne’s style is crazy! And I mean that in a good way. He definitely has a unique flow that is unlike any other. Matter of fact one of my favorite songs out right now is, "Mrs. Officer" by Wayne. So please don’t mistake my words. I think Wayne is talented, however sometimes he confuses me during his interviews. I just don’t know how to take him sometimes.

On another note Wayne is also supposed to be staring in an upcoming movie with Bow Wow, and Forest Whitaker tentatively called "Patriots." The movie should be very interesting considering Wayne's personality. I will definitely be going to see this film. Forest Whitaker is an excellent actor, and Bow Wow is a cutie! LOL I wish Weezy much success in his new film. All Information about Wayne’s new movie was obtained from Billboard.com --"Patriots" is based on a true story about a high school basketball team whose players attend five different high schools until Hurricane Katrina leads them to come together and reach the state championships. The flick is directed by Tim Story, and it’s slated to be in theaters November 2008."
(Mariel Concepcion, N.Y. May 2008)

Clips from Lil Waynes interview with Datwon Thomas from XXL:
[Editor’s Note: Part one of this interview appears in the October 2008 issue of XXL.]

DT: What are you reading right now to help you…Wayne-I don’t read a damn thing. That’s why I don’t write music. I’m too cool to be reading and writing…I’m a very intelligent ni***. I can read like a motherfu***. I don’t want motherfu**** to think I’m illiterate.

DT: You’re in college so…Wayne-I don’t read, other than that sh**.

DT: But we talking about books for leisure.
Wayne-Nah, I’ve done that like once or twice. It’s just not my thing. I’m not into made-up stories.

DT: You know how people get together and they like, “Yo, you read…”Wayne-I’m not even in that conversation circle. That would be crazy, I can’t answer nothing so why would I sit there and talk? I ain’t read no books. I sit and watch ESPN all day. I can tell you what happened in sports. I do what floats my boat. If you trying to figure out where I get this talk, that’s me. I’m born with that. I don’t have no brothers, no sisters. My brother is 6-years-old. My dad ain’t never had one of those. And the one I called pops, he passed. My momma, she do her cooking thing. I’m an intelligent ni***,. I just refuse to be dumb.

XXL Article Link

Another Interview Clip with Brendan Frederick from XXL Magazine- December, 2007

BF: In the past couple of years, you’ve won over lots of fans and critics. Your popularity has skyrocketed. What’s your mind-set right now with Tha Carter III coming out?
Wayne- My mind-set is always the same. I’m never there. That’s the mind-set I stay with: You’re never there, until you’re there.

BF: Where is there? Do you mean the top?
Wayne- Who knows? Maybe the top isn’t where I need to be. But I just know one day I will be there. Wherever there should be. That’s what my mind frame is every day: working on getting there. You’re never there.

Full Article!

Wayne’s ESPN Sports Blog!

T.I. BABY MOMMA DRAMA

As I announced in my YouTube blog a week ago T.I. aka Rubber band Man is in court yet again fighting with his Baby Mama, (29-year-old Lashon Dixon.) Their court battle is regarding child support for their two sons. Lashon has been getting $2,000 a month for child support, and she wants more money. Yes you saw the numbers correctly, (that was a two followed by three zeros!) Honestly I can’t believe a judge would award her such a small amount considering TI’s income. Well anyway the sad outcome of the case was Lashon Dixon was only given an extra thousand dollars a month!

What an insult. I would be Mad as Hell! LOL TI says his ex is having trouble making ends meet because she won’t get a job. Well umm excuse me but if I have two young sons by a man who makes enough to support us, I would stay home too! LOL what’s so wrong with her wanting to stay home and take care of her kids full time? I mean I could see if the kids were grown! The only reason why most people work anyway is to support themselves, and their families.

If I was in the court room I would have yelled out, "That’s not fair. 50's baby’s mom was getting $25,000 a month and she only got one kid!" (Hot Ghetto Mess!) LOL It’s a shame Shaniqua messed up that sweet deal by being greedy. Honestly how do you need more than $25,000 a month to raise one kid? I wish that was me because I would have been kissing 50's A**! LOL I mean he worked hard for that money. Why should he have to give it all away? $50,000 a month is completely unreasonable.

Along with TI’s music career he supposedly has a film unit, and a clothing line. Question: TI, is $3,000 even hurting your pockets a tiny bit? LOL Ironically TIP is releasing his latest album entitled, "Paper Trail" on Sept. 30th 2008. I personally find the title humorous considering the recent Palimony Suit against him.

FYI: This information has also been reported- Along with the $2,000 a month TI finances the children's private school, medical bills, and extracurricular activities. T.I. also has received joint custody of his two sons. Does this added information cast TI in a better light? Hmmm...I don’t know you tell me!